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Sunday, November 7, 2021

What Should We Think Of Large Age Gaps In Christian Marriages?


Below is a short list of some more well known Biblical examples, Christians, pastors, and missionaries who married with a large age gap.

Ruth and Boaz: "And he said, 'May you be blessed by the LORD, my daughter. You have made this last mercy greater than the first in that you have not gone after young men, whether poor or rich.'" Ruth 3:10

Abraham and Sarah (10 year difference)

Reformer and Pastor Martin Luther, whom God used to start the Protestant Reformation, at 42, married his beloved 26 year old ex-nun Katherine. (16 year difference)

Reformer and Pastor John Knox at 50 married the 17 year old Margaret Stevenson. (33 year difference)

Pastor John Brown of Haddington, in his 2nd marriage, when he was 51 years old, married the 28 year old Violet Crombie. (23 year difference)

Pastor Richard Baxter was almost 47 when he married 27 year old Margaret. (20 year difference)

Puritan William Bates, at 36, married the 21 year old Margaret Gravenor. (15 year difference)

The Puritan Pastor Thomas Goodwin, at 49, married Mary Hammond when she was 17. (32 year difference)

Baptist Missionary Adoniram Judson, at 46, married his second wife, the 31 year old Sarah Boardman. (15 year difference)

Adoniram Judson met his 3rd wife, Emily Chubbock, when he was nearly 60, and she was not yet 30. (29 year difference)


Cameron Townsend, who founded Wycliffe Bible Translators, and his 2nd wife were 20 years apart. (20 year difference)

Abolitionist Frederick Douglass, at 66, married Helen Pitts when she was 46. (20 year difference) 

Evangelist Mordecai Ham, at 31, married 15 year old Annie Laurie in 1908. (16 year difference)

Gipsy Smith, a British Evangelist, when he was 78, married his 27 year old bride, Mary Alice, in 1938. (51 year difference)

John Murray, theology professor at Westminster Theological Seminary near Philadelphia, married Valerie Knowlton in 1967 when he was 70 and she was almost 41. (29 year difference)

Missionary and author Elisabeth Elliot was 42 when she married her second husband, Addison Leitch, who was 60 years old. (18 year difference)

Seminary professors Carl and Karen Ellis married when she was 40 and he was 60 (20 year difference): Here's the wonderful story about how they met and married. 


Given the Bible’s silence on the issue, we can say that, in the end, age differences in relationships are not a major concern to God. Age can be important in a marriage, of course, but it is far less important than other issues such as salvation, spiritual maturity, compatibility, etc. 

Do you know any other Christian couples with large age gaps? Please comment and let me know!

Christ is all!

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